If you care to know me a little deeper …
“If you love an empath, love them honestly, and with all your heart. Empaths don't take love lightly, and they don't pretend. When they choose to open their hearts, expect to be blown away.
Their love is intense, powerful, messy and sometimes difficult, but it is real. Empaths don't know how to love any other way.
Empaths are different than most people and very sensitive to people's energy, moods, emotions, situations and their environment. They feel everything and ′′know′′ things without proof. A little mysterious and complex, their emotions are deep, but what lies below the surface is a world that is unique to her.
She is sensitive, creative, vulnerable, honest, intuitive, and easily overcome. They see beauty and happiness everywhere. They cry, they feel the pain of others, and they aren’t afraid to show their own pain.
She feels all the dishonesty in the world, and needs the person she loves to be honest. Dishonesty does not work for an empath. Even if she is never meant to discover the deception, she will feel it and it’s torture for her to know that you’re doing something behind her back. Be honest and sincere the first time.
She is like a bird, she must be able to fly freely. Caging her is cutting her wings. She will lose the light if you try to control or change her and she will stop opening up and showing her love. Damage is not easily fixed, as the empath you love has probably been heartbroken and needs to be treated with respect. Don't rush it. She will come from herself when she is ready.
Empaths need time alone. Give her space. It will calm her mind and renew her energy. The emotions of an empath are incredibly complex that they struggle to express how they feel. They are intense, passionate, and enthusiastic. Be understanding. Take her seriously. Believe in her.
Empaths have the ability to change the world. They feel everything so deeply that wisdom comes naturally. Their intuition is strong so trust it when they have a good feeling. When they think someone is lying, trust them. When they tell you a situation is not right, believe them.”
- Author Unknown
Talk to Each Other!
I feel very strongly about personal connection and to me, that means getting in front of someone or having a good old fashion phone call. Digital communication has its place, but it doesn’t replace the feeling you get when you’re face-to-face with someone or fully present and engaged in a real meaningful conversation.
I love this sort of personal connection and those of you who get calls from me know it’s what I do.
I call because I care … like the genuine heart-filled kind of care. AND if you don’t feel like engaging, that's fine, too. I respect people's privacy and understand that some days we might feel blah and not engaging with anyone.
I get it (100%) ... just know that if I reach out, I'm thinking about you and sending love.
All moods aside, I do feel that we need to check in and touch base more often. I've seen such a rise in anxiety and depression and it's heartbreaking.
Now, more than ever, we need to get out there and connect and vibe with our people like we did in the 80’s before all the mobile phones and apps and digital technology.
Living more meaningful and authentic lives allows us to elevate and emit strong positive vibes. And then we go out and sprinkle that love & positivity everywhere.
A wise woman once said, "fuck this shit" and she lived happily ever after.